Guide to Sending Sympathy Flowers

August 5, 2022

Sending sympathy flowers is lovely to express your condolences and support to the grieving family. Learn more about sending these special arrangements here.

Sending sympathy flowers to those who are experiencing the loss of a loved one is a wonderful way to express your sympathy, love, and support. To learn which flowers are best to send, when you should send them, as well as ideas for what to write on the card, keep reading as provides of cremation services in Thousand Oaks, CA. explain everything you need to know about sending sympathy flowers. 


What are Sympathy Flowers? 


Before we dive into the best practices for sending sympathy flowers, it’s important to have a clear understand of what these flowers are (and are not). Sympathy flowers are the small bouquets of flowers that are delivered directly to the grieving family’s home. 


These are not the same as funeral flowers. Funeral flowers are large flower bouquets, sprays, crosses and more that are delivered directly to the location of the funeral. These flowers will be used in the services and are most often sent by family or very close family friends. 


When Should You Send Sympathy Flowers? 


Sympathy flowers can be sent as soon as you hear the news of the passing. They are most often sent before the funeral or other services, but it is really never too late to send them. If you are late to hear about the passing, were out of town, or had another situation that made you unable to send the flowers sooner, don’t think it’s too late. Having a flower bouquet arrive at your door can always brighten your day and the grieving family will appreciate your thoughtfulness. 


What Flowers Are Most Appropriate? 


With different flowers holding specific meanings some flowers are more suited to be sympathy flowers than others. Some popular choices of flowers that are included in sympathy bouquets include irises, roses, carnations, lilies, orchids, and gladiolas. 


When you order your bouquet, you can find premade options available online that will contain the appropriate flowers. You can also work with a local florist to create our own special arrangement as they will be able to help you select the best flowers. 


What Do I Write on the Card? 


Finding the right words to say to someone who has lost a loved one is always challenging. You want to say just the right thing that will make all of their pain just vanish. Of course this isn’t going to happen no matter how poetic your words, so cut yourself come slack and just speak from your heart. Some things you could consider writing are: 


  • I am so sorry for your loss 
  • With deepest sympathy 
  • Our thoughts are with you 
  • In loving memory of (deceased’s name) 


Final Thoughts 


Sending sympathy flowers is a beautiful way to express your sympathy and offer your condolences to the grieving family. After their loved one’s cremation services in Thousand Oaks, CA., these flowers can bring just a little bit of joy in a very difficult time. Whether you buy a prearranged bouquet online or work with a local florist the flowers will remind the family that they are loved and being thought of and that can go a long way in helping them through. 


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